I have been living in Medellin for over 5 years now.
When I first arrived here, there wasn’t yet a complete guide to dating paisa women.
So I do not get that immediate attention here in Medellin.
Actually, I got more instant attention in Southern California; the “Latino effect.” The only thing that makes me stand out to women here is my height, thank God for that one tall great uncle! This is a big plus for me here because I’m naturally outgoing and funny, so I can really be myself when speaking Spanish.
I had to learn everything from experience, and it’s been a blast.